I would talk to her, but it would fucking hard. I think I would have to got at it in a business like style, to know exactly what she expects from the relationship, and what I expect to be able to provide, and vice-versa. Which sucks, because if we have emotions for each other, that should not be necessary, but the fact is that I know we have had bad communication and that is part of what led to our split. I did not listen, and she was not emphatic enough to show that she was really bitching about something as opposed to just bitching for bitching sakes (which she did do a good bit of, to be honest).
Short answer, yes, long answer, eh?