I've seen pr0n videos on free streaming pr0n sites with women who have large clits. It's a clit, and the woman has normal female genitalia, it's just big, and weird as hell.
I can understand people who are intersexed, but once you get to an old enough age wouldn't you want to chose one gender over another? Why would you decide to be gender-neutral. Evolution (or God, or God through evolution) created two genders so us creatures can procreate and make more of ourselves. Waiting until you can decide is one thing, but once you're an adult and can't chose a gender?