You are the misguided soul here my friend. I know from working in a bar/club for the past million years that If a girl wants to dwarf everyone in the room and flout the conventions of society then she better be ready to be courted mainly by gentlemen even taller than she's made herself...and those are usually in short supply once she's broken 6'2''.
Personally I don't mind tall girls at all. I'm a little over 6'2'' and it doesn't bother me but I've watched them be over looked night after night, people talk about them behind they're back "She's really hot, but she's just sooo tall" etc., it's just not a smart move unless they want to dance alone.