Its not similar cause I dont date men, and Im honest with people before i get together with them so there will be no Crying Game, much to your chagrin.
Therefor, I dont decieve anyone.
Or wait, are you talking about random people on the street who see me?
They dont matter to me, and I dont have to please them, or you.
I get it, i dont share your narrow vision of normalcy, I can live with that.
You must go around wondering whats in everyones pants.... but perhaps youre the one not happy with whats in yours.