Author Topic: To Cap off the scariest year of my life... (Read 15294 times)

Wickedly Yours E · « **Reply #30 on:** Nov 11, 2004, 09:34:46 AM »

Mind Games/Power games. She knows the truth, we don't...I don't know. This is the SECOND person in my family that has given me the very real urge for violence...
My Dad and Mom are going down today to talk to Grandma.....

Bernie AKA · « **Reply #31 on:** Nov 11, 2004, 03:40:08 PM »

Sorry, Ems - I have no idea why people have to pull that shit, but you're right about the powet games. It's emotional manipulation, and it'll come back to bite her sooner or later, trust me. Every damn place Eddie's mom had lived, people have allegedly "abused" her, however, when Eddie was in a frenzy and threatening to call authorities, etc., she would always back down. Finally, after the time she squatted in my dad's house for two months (while we were trying to get it ready to sell, no less) and Eddie's brother called & asked him how he could let ME abuse her, he realized the abuse claim was her version of having a little tantrum because she wanted attention.

Wickedly Yours E · « **Reply #32 on:** Nov 11, 2004, 09:31:45 PM »

Apparently Grandma and grandpa refused to really talk about it today, so relatively nothing was said. Gyyyaaaah. I wonder what else is in store for the rest of this year...

B E C K · « **Reply #33 on:** Nov 11, 2004, 11:04:00 PM »

That really bites. It's difficult enough to deal with this sort of thing without the lies... Best of luck to you.

Wickedly Yours E · « **Reply #34 on:** Nov 12, 2004, 01:04:25 PM »

I've just been informed of what was really discussed yesterday between my parents and grandparents. As far as I'm concerned now? Lymphoma is too damn good a death for her.
All pity and sympathy I had for her or my grandmother evaporated when I was informed that my grandmother not only brushed aside the subject of her cancer when discussing it with my parents, but claimed that my father owes them FIFTY GRAND for all the favors/money lending that she's given our family over the years.
See, my father got a settlement from the company he used to work for about a year ago, and my grandmother is under the impression that it was in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. WELL That's totally off the mark by a very large margin.
How DARE she bring up money to US, US. My Family does not have that kind of money! How dare she bring up money when she has cancer! To US, let alone period! We've helped her and helped her so much over the years, but looking back on it now she's always been a conniving, greedy person that's only concerned for what you can do for her, so this particular incident shouldn't suprise me in the least. I guess I was hoping she wasn't as bad a person as I thought she was. How mistaken I was...
. And my grandfather's no better, he has no balls to confront her about it or anything of the sort, so screw them both. Cancer be damned. I'm not wasting any sympathy on them.

FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKING BAD YEAR.

B E C K · « **Reply #35 on:** Nov 12, 2004, 11:42:27 PM »

On the bright side it's November. That means it's almost over.

Fiero · « **Reply #36 on:** Nov 13, 2004, 12:21:38 AM »

And there'll be a day this month and the next when you can gather with the family and friends you love so much to devour a precious animal slaughtered in a factory farm.

Wickedly Yours E · « **Reply #37 on:** Nov 13, 2004, 10:03:48 AM »

Immediate family and Aunt Dana, really. Grandma Harding used to come down for Thanksgiving with a friend of the family, David...Man...he could really play a piano...
...I miss Grandma Harding now.

MegatronYES · « **Reply #38 on:** Nov 15, 2004, 11:09:10 PM »

:huh: Jesus Christ, Emerid.

Bernie AKA · « **Reply #39 on:** Nov 16, 2004, 08:26:41 AM »

I know your family wouldn't do it Emmy, but it's people like her who need to be abandoned in a nursing home. Or maybe this is her way of trying to exert some control or influence since her life is now out of her hands, really, or "even the scale" in a weird sort of way since she'll be moving in & dependent on your family.

I told my nephew that if I ever start acting like this or get obsessed with bowel movements to leave all the pills where I could reach them. B)

Wickedly Yours E · « **Reply #40 on:** Nov 16, 2004, 08:42:10 PM »

Oh Like HELL She's moving in here now. They have stated firmly that "They Aren't moving and don't want to talk about moving." SO, Despite the Chemotherapy she will most likely be enduring, and despite the arguement my aunt says that "Chemotherapy won't get her that sick", they will probably be not moving in here. Probably for the best, because if she even tried any of her manipulative tricks on myself or my younger brother? Heh. She'll only suceed in frustrating herself.

Wickedly Yours E · « **Reply #41 on:** Nov 16, 2004, 08:43:21 PM »

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:huh: Jesus Christ, Emerid.

He ain't currently lookin' favorably on my family, man.

Wickedly Yours E · « **Reply #42 on:** Nov 21, 2004, 03:04:48 PM »

Update: Given a week or so to cool off, I'm not nearly as pissed as I was when I posted that first bit against my grandmother, though I will never look at her the same again.....
Still haven't heard much, she's gone in for a catscan and a couple other tests...Nothing really new yet.